Sunday, April 23, 2006

you are my love story

her : i just wanna be in love

him : what does being in love feel like

her : gee.. im not sure

him : how come?

her : well its hard to say. i confuse being in a relationship with being in love. i believe it should go together hand in hand.. dont u think so?

him : dont ask me.. i dont really believe in love.

her : but i thought u said u love me

him : well yeah..

her : ure mean! u dont love me do u?

him : of course i do..

her : okay. well.. i still dont know what it feels like.. i just want to know.. that i have someone in my life.. and that i dont have to worry wether this person would ever leave me and be with someone else. and that no matter where i am.. or where he is.. i love him.. and he loves me. and stay that way forever and ever. does it sound too much of a fairytale?

him : i dont know.. what do u think?

her : maybe someday.. it wont be a fairytale anymore..

him : so how's ur love story?

her : i dont have a love story.. ( u are my love story )

him : really?

her : yeah.. really.... ( u are my love story )

him : okay...

her : well i have to go...

him : okay...

her : bye

him : bye

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5 Comments:

Blogger Amir EtCetera said...

actually, for both of them... the come up with the same conclusion...

her : huh?? *blank*

him : huh?? *blank*

kan? kan? kan?

3:15 AM  
Blogger Mohd Sharazad Saiful Bahri said...

A simple word - LOVE

I am sitting on a bench, in the middle of the night in Canakkale, south of Istanbul. The usual routine at night which is sleeping is not an interest for the people in here as I can see the Turkish people, especially adolescence around my age walking by in front of me. There are couple holding hands together feeling as if the windy night belongs to them, there are a group of youths laughing and talking loudly to each other feeling as if this laughter lightens up the darkness of the night, and there are people walking in a solitude feeling as if the world belongs only to himself. It is a windy night, I am tired due to the earlier long journey from Ephesus. The leaves falling as if the earth wants it to be, as the wind dominates the scenery. I am warming up myself with the leather jacket that I wear, at times I shiver as the nature gets over me. I look right of me, seeing a couple hugging themselves together and as a human being, I dream of the moment that they cherish now, right in front of my eyes. The sceptical side of me awakes when it comes to love. As I grow, experience and knowing people have taught me that love is not as easy as I say it. Like the Dardanell Straits in front of me, which the horizon marks the limit of my eyes in seeing the European side of Turkey, the similar blindness emerges in my comprehension of love. There is more to love than just holding hands, there is more to love than just sex and kissing, and even more than just saying I LOVE YOU. If I were to fall in love, I will do the best for me and the other half of the sky. However, do not say that the love is not there if I just give half of my effort and commitment. Do not just see what you want to see, do not just assume what you want to assume, as monkey see monkey do. There is still a long way to go, another sea to across, another mountain to climb, and another day to sail as the future is very uncertain and we are bounded by our own rationality. At my age now, this is the precious time for me to know a lot of people and doing things that I want to do. It is for the purpose of filling up my Experience Bank. I believe if both have good intentions to spend half of the life with the other half of the sky, that is the beginning of a new phase in life, which is the time for me to be a father and for the other half of the sky to be a mother. Yes, it is my highest happiness in the future to see my own baby, cuddling the baby as my father did to me. When the right time arrives, everything will be there.

At the moment, my desire of solitary moment in carving my own career in the next four to five years clings to the words by Paulo Coelhe in 'The Zahir' -

If you're asking me if I like your company, the answer is yes. If on the other hand, you're asking me if I could live without you, the answer is also yes

However, I can plan but there are various possibility of different outcomes. I have my own bounded rationality too. As in 'The Zahir' -

Some time ago, I was in Geneva for a series of interviews. At the end of a day's work, and because a woman friend I was supposed to have supper with cancelled at the last minute, I set off for a stroll around the city. It was a particularly lovely night, the streets were deserted, the bars and restaurants still full of life, and everything seemed utterly calm, orderly, pretty, and yet suddenly I realised that I was utterly alone.

Needless to say, I had been alone on other occasions during the year. Needless to say, my girlfriend was only two hours away by plane. Needless to say, after a busy day, what could be better than a stroll through the narrow streets and lanes of the old city, without having talk to anyone, simply enjoying the beauty around me. And yet the feeling that surfaced was one of oppressive, distressing loneliness - not having someone with whom I could share the city, the walk, the things I'd like to say.

I got out my mobile phone; after all, I had a reasonable number of friends in the city, but it was too late to phone anyone. I considered going into one of the bars and ordering a drink; someone was bound to recognise me and invite me to join them. But I resisted the temptation and tried to get through that moment, discovering, in the process, that there is nothing worse than the feeling that no one cares whether we exist or not, that no one is interested in what we have to say about life, and that the world can continue turning without our awkward presence.

I began to imagine how many million of people were, at that moment, feeling utterly useless and wretched - however rich, charming and delightful they might be - because they were aone that night, as they were yesterday, and as they might well be tomorrow. Students with no one to go out with, older people sitting in front of the TV as if it were their sole salvation, businessmen in their hotel rooms, wondering if what they were doing made any sense, women who spent the afternoon carefully applying their makeup and doing their hair in order to to a bar only to pretend that they're not looking for company; all they want is confirmation that they're still attractive; the men ogle them and chat them, but the women reject them all disdainfully, because they feel inferior and are afraid the men will find out that they're single mothers or lowly clerks with nothing to say about what's going on in the world because they work from dawn to dusk to scrape a living and have no time to read the newspapers. People who look at themselves in the mirror and think themselves ugly, believing that being beautiful is what really matters, and spend their time reading magazines in which everyone is pretty, rich, and famous. Husbands and wives who wish they could talk over supper as they used to, but there are always other things demanding their attention, more important things, and the conversation can always wait for a tomorrow that never comes.

That day, I had lunch with a friend who had just got divorced and she said t me, 'Now I can enjoy the freedom I've always dreamed of having.' But that's a lie. No one wants that kind of freedom: we all want commitment, we all want someone to be beside us to enjoy the beauties of Geneva, to discuss books, films, or even to share a sandwhich with because there isn't enough money to buy one each. Better to eat half a sandwhich than a whole one.

I get up from my long sitting, an air of pleasure in realising the wonderful possibility arises as I am now longing for my bed in the hotel. I walk pass the 'wooden horse' of Troy exhibited on the seafront, breathing the air of victory as resembled by the horse.

4:00 AM  
Blogger carinasuyin said...

Halllooo dear! Yes, I'm still in Singapura... Yeay, when are you coming down? Left my contacts in your yahoo mailbox dah... :)

1:16 PM  
Anonymous ted said...

that is suach a difficult place to be in, sister. to be, or no to be. to stay, or not to stay.
but you know what, i believe that everything happens for a reason, and however it turns out to be, that's exactly the way it's meant to be.
chins up!

11:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe u should write a play... Ever read the PYGMALION? Great masquerade love theatre by George Bernard Shaw... I think it was remade into MY FAIR LADY with Audrey Hepburn as the female lead...

If u'r thinking of that special someone, maybe u should try contacting that person... I personally believe that when we're thinking sincerely about someone, the universe responds positively by making that person think reciprocal thoughts... He may be thinking of u this very moment.

Then again, u may just be a potentially effective scriptwriter. Why not listen to the Beatles' PAPERBACK WRITER for a change of pace? Writing may serve you well in the future as the pen is always mightier than the sword ("sword" jumbled up = "words").

J.T. Edwards

3:17 PM  

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